I met a man on Christian mingles, he has an accent states he is German/ Irish. He has been emailing for over a month and phoning also. Widowed for five years, moved from Brooklyn NY to Miami Florida email email@example.com. Name is Andrew Thomas White, one daughter age 31 one grand child. He states he is an engineer got a government contract in Cairo Egypt, will be their five weeks. From the time of his arrival he states two packages of equipment worth 15 thousand dollars is missing from the shipping port. He only took 10 thousand dollars with him, Doesn't know what he is going to do. A week later he began to ask Can I send anything to help him, If I cared. For him " BY GOD Grace" I would help him, he doesn't understand why I would not assist him. I simply stated the truth I don't have that kind of money to just. Send off their. He asked me to marry him. All the romantic emails he has sent are lovely, I want badly to believe him, Yet I can not tract the phone number he uses, Its listed in that same name to four different states of people with the same name, same number different ages. All Red flags to me, but my heart is vested here. After getting past this point , he says he can't use his bank card in Cairo to have funds from his bank transfered he had logged on to his bank account and was locked out stating it not his IP address, So I phoned the corporate bank head quarters he states he uses , they stated yes they could get his funds to him overnight he just needs to call.. I passed that information to him, but he didn't call. Nor will he provide me with the name of this hotel in Cairo that he is staying in. Again red flags. I mentioned to him that I had read the safety tips on Christian mingle and they always state do no send any form of money to any one. He quickly stated he is not that kind of man. Next few days,His computer was stolen from his hotel room, His cell phone isn't working proper. He's almost out of funds doesn't know what he is going to do.. Again I reminded him his own bank is available to him. No calls for four days. Then he phones The hotel manager is wanting to see him about the hotel charges he doesn't have the funds to pay. I again have reminded him he has his bank sitting waiting for his call to get his funds overnight. I can't get this guy really. I can't trace his phone number it comes up in four states listed to four different age people, The closest match to the age he gave is in Tennessee where. He states he lived once and is associated with another number at that address , when phoning it there is an automatic message the line you have reached is unavailable. The IP trace shows up as Washington state, Because it Microsoft outlook. Now again No called for four days, no text response also. I traced the photos he sent me they do not show up anywhere at all on the internet. How can I truly find out once and for all if this man is legit ?